Missionaries of the Sacred

One way we help build the culture of life is through our response to people in need, including pregnant women facing difficult situations. Researching area resources helps prepare us in case someone comes to us for help.

If someone we love is facing a difficult or unexpected pregnancy, it is also important to listen to her, be supportive, and be willing to help. Let her know that you love and support her and are there for her during this time. If applicable, let her know that while you love and  support her, abortion is not a true solution. Some women who seek post abortion healing say that they wish someone had spoken up against abortion when they were weighing their options. If she needs help with housing, medical care, etc., encourage her to check out a local pregnancy center that can connect her to area resources.

While your friend or family member may just need a loving, patient listener during this difficult time, she might also need you to support her in other ways. Let her know that she can contact you if she needs anything. There are many ways you may be able to help. For instance,  perhaps she needs a ride to her prenatal check ups, or someone to watch her other kids while she is at the doctor’s office.