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Saturday, 12 September 2009 00:00
What can we as parents, teachers, mentors or friends do to prevent our youth from joining a gang?

Be aware of the following activities around the school or neighborhood:
  • Clustering of rival groups (school, parks, parking lots, movie theaters, etc.)
  • Movement of groups not common in your neighborhood (carloads of kids not from your neighborhood)
  • Reports of fights and arguments on school property (i.e. bus stops, on buses, lunch hours)
  • Increase in gang graffiti
  • Violent incidents reported
  • Sudden / excessive change in dress (wearing the same color/flying rags)

 

Take an active role in your children’s lives:

  • Praise your children for doing well / encourage them to participate in positive activities
  • Get to know your children’s friends and their families
  • Set the example / be a positive model
  • Talk and listen to your children
  • Talk to your children about gangs / discourage participation
  • Spend quality time with your children
  • Put a high value on education
  • Identify with positive role models

 

Several suggested skills for parents to prevent their children from entering a gang:

  • Be a good observer
  • Learn the real names of your children’s friends
  • Monitor living space for gang paraphernalia, weapons and drugs
  • Report all crimes
  • Seek the facts – kids will tell you what you want to hear
  • Set clear limits – follow through with discipline if they break the rules

 

Source: Gang Awareness: A Handbook for Parents, Teachers, and Concerned Citizens, San Antonio Police Department Youth Crime Service Unit.